The Bible says in Ecclesiastes 3 that there is a time to laugh. And who am I, as a young Christian with an honestly inconsistent fire for her faith, to ignore that profound truth?
I love to laugh. There are so many funny things in life, and happy things, and things that are so perfect that I cannot help but giggle with joy. There are funny cat videos on Tumblr. And conversations I have with my little sister as we lie half-asleep on our bunks in the midnight darkness- if anyone overheard us they would instantly think us insane (and be mostly correct). And endings to my favorite movies, when the good guys win, or the boy kisses the girl as the music swells, or everyone dances and parties at the wedding, and I hug a pillow on my couch, my eyes shining like the utterly ridiculous romantic I truly am underneath my mask of cynicism and lame science puns. And laughter bounds out of me- sometimes high and girlish, other times without a sound as I breathlessly bend over, reveling in honest mirth.
I firmly believe people tend to take themselves too seriously. I can say this with conviction, because as a tragically typical teenage girl I know what it is to make my so-called issues a stubborn part of my identity. Not to say that there aren't people whose lives are actually riddled with problems, but regardless of how sad things may be, we get beautiful sunrises and sunsets every single day- isn't that amazing? And parents have adorable toddlers who say the darndest things, and don't we all laugh at their innocence? And lovers get proposed to and married all the time- do we not laugh with them in their joy?
There is so much humor and happiness to be found in everyday life. Like when I hear a new song and listen to it on repeat until it becomes my own. Or when I hear my little brother singing along to his iPod, alone in his room. Or when my mom's family gets together (enough said; they are more entertaining than cable).
When I watched Les Miserables for the first time, the message I got out of it was: life sucks, but there's always tomorrow. And that's true. Whatever you may be going through could be enough to make you crawl into the fetal position and sob loud. But, darling, there is always hope for tomorrow- better yet, there's a little hope in the here and now. Hope for the present is everywhere- in the sarcastic banter between old friends, and hugs that lift you off your feet, and family drama you can reminisce over for years to come. So don't be afraid to laugh. It makes everything easier to bear and usually sets people at ease. Develop a uniquely hysterical sense of humor and don't be reserved with it. It's okay to be inappropriate and immature every now and again- you'd be surprised how many people's days can be made with a bit of middle school bathroom humor. There. I said it. And you should say it too.
--Laura :)
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